In today’s episode of, “Will You Marry Me,” I’d like to talk to you about, “5 Ways You Can Improve Your Attractiveness.” In relationships, attractiveness plays a key role. When we seek someone’s company, it’s because we’re attracted to them. The opposite is true. Hence, the importance of staying attractive can’t be overemphasized.
The universe operates through the Law of Attraction. Learning to attract love is a better alternative to chasing love. In life, those who chase tend to struggle, whereas those who rely on the power of attraction tend to get what they want – with minimal effort.
Admittedly, attractiveness is a relative term. What’s attractive to Alice might be loathsome to Linda. That’s life. “One man’s trash is another man’s treasure,” as they say.
Even so, within each of us there lies an infinite field of untapped potential. Regular self-improvement exercises will help to reveal more of our inner beauty and abilities. This will result in added value and enhanced attractiveness.
With that, here are five (5) ways we can improve our attractiveness:
1. Polish Your Listening Skills
If we want to be attractive, it’s important to resist the temptation to dominate conversations, and be willing to listen more. It’s a sign of maturity and respect. Those with better listening skills make for better partners than those who talk too much and don’t appreciate the value of listening.
2. Stay in Shape (Physically and Mentally)
The effort we put into staying in shape says a lot about us. It’s a sign we’re responsible, and being responsible is an attractive quality. Besides, a healthy lifestyle has the advantage of boosting our self-confidence.
3. Broaden Your Knowledge
Taking time to read, research, and study is a great way to sharpen our minds and enhance our attractiveness. In relationships, this can help us engage in meaningful and stimulating conversations around a variety of topics.
4. Raise Your Financial Standing
Money is energy. When there’s a healthy supply of it in our life, it boosts our confidence. And increased confidence brightens our aura, making us more magnetic and attractive. We must do what we can to be financially comfortable because the state of our financial wellbeing affects all aspects of our life. We may have to change jobs, start a business, improve our educational qualifications, or seek better opportunities abroad.
5. Learn a New Skill
Marriage is a marathon, and it’s possible to get bored at some point. When people get bored, they resort to unhealthy habits: gossip, overeating, excessive drinking, or idleness. The solution is to get creative and active.
One way is to devote ourselves to learning a new skill, for example: cooking, gardening, a new language, a musical instrument, a dance, or a sport. This way, we’re learning something meaningful while improving our physical, cognitive, and social skills. And every new skill helps us in the attractiveness department.
There’s no limit to what we can become. Let’s make a decision today.
With love and blessings